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How to plan your affordable gay wedding
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Fabulous and affordable gay wedding tips from the fabulous Aimee Palifroni:
Plan your affordable gay wedding
The wedding season is on us and same -sex couples across the country want to make our special day as special as we do. What options do you have to make your day unforgettable?
How can you avoid that you let your wedding ruin your wedding?
In this episode of Strange money® We spoke to Aimee Palifroni, owner and main coordinator at Prisma Weddings & Events.
Oh, and Aimee was our wedding planner!
In this episode, AIMEE 9 cost-conscious tips for planning a great same-sex wedding from which some are useful for weddings of each budget and every sexual orientation.
Aimee has been planning same-sex weddings and engagement ceremonies since the past in June 2015 before the equality of marriage has passed. She saw the development of these ceremonies and says that same -sex couples with the idea of throwing their own wedding are and more and more comfortable. While at first many of us, many of us still wrapped us that we actually have it available.
With regard to a traditional or non -traditional route with your wedding, Aimee says: “The matter about weddings today there are no rules, and this applies to opposite and same -sex weddings.” Aimee continues: “As soon as they have all the plots together – who What, where, when -, is it really with you to add your own personality. “
The common trend is that “everyone does it in their own way”. Weddings are more experience-based than traditional, and couples want their wedding to be “unstable”.
How do you achieve all of these goals with your gay wedding and don’t blow your budget? These 9 tips help.
1. Only download those you want to invite
The two most expensive advertising books of most weddings are the guest list and the alcohol budget – one concerns the other. But for many same -sex couples who want to get married, we balance the family who accept us and family who do not do, family with whom we have stayed in contact with, and those that we do not do because they are homophobic.
That was the case for us. Because some family members do not accept us and others, it was too difficult to decide who invites – can we invite someone and not their siblings, children and not their parents?
When Aimee said: “You know, people, you don’t have to invite a family,” opened the sky and only plan our wedding for friends. It also saved us a lot of money because we did not have to feed drinks for people and deliver to people who wanted us not to get married.
2. Storage the bar itself (if your venue allowed)
If you are allowed from your venue, it can save a lot of money to make your bar yourself. Aimee has worked with couples, which are available for several months before their wedding days of beer, wine and alcohol for several months to a year.
Another option is to store alcohol from their engagement ceremony as the “Lager The Bar” sink. Finally, look for local spirits transactions that offer price games, buyback programs, free and cold deliveries.
According to Aimee, this tip can also help to build the anticipation on your special day, since almost everything else is conceptual on your wedding day until the day arrives. If you are a growing spirits cabinet – if you cannot touch it, you can create a concrete excitement.
3. Skip the bridal party
As you estimate your guest list, Aimee says: “If you skip the bridal party and concentrate your ceremony on both of you, it is another quick and easy way to cut advertising books from your affordable gay wedding budget.” She sees this with her same -sex customers A little more than their heterosexual customers.
If you do without the wedding celebration, you can save expenses such as bouquets, boutonnier and gifts to the wedding celebration. It also keeps the wedding focus on brides or grooms, which can offer an intimate experience.
4. Make a reception style with food stations
In contrast to family or full service, the reception style creates a funny and moving ambience with a mixture of tables. This can include a few round tables that stand eight to ten people with several cocktails for people.
The use of food stations is one of the most popular wedding solutions from Aimee. It enables wedding guests to mix and mix and create a number of experiences that contain different kitchens. This is an exceptionally big tip when people who come from different cultures marry.
This tip can help you save money in a way that may not be obvious. On the one hand, it eliminates the need to decorate a large number of tables with flower arrangements, other decorations and costly basics such as tablecloths, napkins, glassware, cutlery and chairs.
Aimee suggests preparing parents and grandparents if they take part in this style because many will expect traditional experience.
5. Use digital invitations and RSVP tracking
The use of digital tools for money and time -saving solutions is more popular than ever. In view of the fact that some of the cheapest printed invitations start at $ 2.50, without postage and the amount of paper used for printed invitations, couples choose more economic and environmentally friendly solutions.
Aimee announces that there are many simple and mostly free options for wedding invitations and RSVP tracking.
The most popular digital invitations and RSVP trackers are the knot, Zola and Minted. For the few guests who need printed invitations, grandparents can be invited, invitations can be used by downloading and printing a digital option from ETSY as a great problem.
6. Rent queer college students for live music, photography, hair and make -up
Each couple has one or two elements of their wedding, which is very important to them. Rent perfectly for these elements professionals. To save money in the other areas, set LGBTQ College students or graduates of College to do the work for you.
In this way you can save money and possibly help an LGBTQ start your career. One of the Aimee customers did this and he saved them a lot of money and helped a student from his Alma Mater to build a portfolio.
However, to make an informed attitude, contact College administrators or faculties to receive references.
7. Be creative with your venue
Aimee suggests that “think outside the ballroom” with event locations such as Airbnb, Misterbnb, breweries, parks or restaurants. Venues often pay a buy out of your room for your wedding. Depending on the beauty of its location such as a park, the need for decorations can even be removed.
8. Elope!
Elopating or choosing a private ceremony is more common in the LGBTQ customers of Aimee than their heterosexual customers, but it is an option that saves a lot of money. Usually couples who select one of these options will follow a party or reception.
This money -saving solution can annoy some friends and family, but they don’t pay for their wedding. Screw it! Who wants to start their marriage with financial stress just to make someone else happy?
9. Rent a wedding planner
Finally, Aimee says that the setting of a wedding planner is an advertising booking that many people skip because the attitude of an extravagant appears. But wedding planners can help you save more money in the long run.
“Our goal is to ensure that you get everything you want and to celebrate exactly how you want without having to lose a second mortgage,” concludes Aimee. Aimee manages weddings all over the world. So, Set Aimee to plan and save your affordable gay wedding.
So, yes, do not traditionally stay with your non-traditional wedding as you want it. But let your same -sex wedding be as unique as you.
Have a wedding that leaves just amazing memories and no continuing cash corner.