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How our mistakes in thinking about money are destroying us
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Your beliefs are your destiny
On today Queer money® we discuss the most common and sabotaging thoughts around money (as identified by us). Queer Money Facebook Group), which make financial success more difficult and in some cases even impossible. We share where these thinking errors come from and how they affect your results in life. We’ll look at the most common and diabolical mistakes.
We discuss the mistakes that have weighed on us the most and those that pose the greatest challenge to the LGBTQ community. Hear insights on the false belief that more money will solve all your problems, and get our top tips for identifying and overcoming the ones that are currently holding you back.
Hear about your thinking errors (and overcome them):
3 leading thinking errors
1. I am not responsible for my situation
- Blaming others for problems (e.g. parents, government, boss)
- Successful people take on radical responsibility
2. I can fuel it with my money
- Failure to plan = planning doomed to failure
- Success depends on preparation and opportunity
3. Having more money would solve all my problems
- Debt not paid off despite salary increases and bonuses
- Examples of NFL players and lottery winners going broke
Other topics include errors in thinking
The definition of thinking errors
- Self-defeating, flawed beliefs
- Not consistent with reality
How our belief systems influence our thinking
- Thoughts – words – actions – habits – fate
- Beliefs become who we are and lead to results
Where do these errors come from?
- 90% of beliefs are adopted by the age of seven
- Accept what others say as truth
Tips for Overcoming Misconceptions About Money
- Identify the errors that concern you
- Look for someone who has overcome a similar challenge
- Determine where you learned these mistakes
- Connect current results to possible errors
- Be aware of how these mistakes appear in daily life