How can a sober gay help your finances?
How much do you spend on alcohol every month? You can be surprised at how much drinking your finances affects. Listen how much money Dillan Gay, the sober gay, was saved when he stopped drinking.
Listen to Dillan’s success with being the sober gay:
Live fabulous as a sober gay
Dillan Gay drank a bottle of red wine every night for ten years. He didn’t bother to pay his bills on time (even though he had the money), and he had even stopped taking care of the people around him. Then, on December 15, 2019, he decided to stop drinking and change his life. Today Dillan is the host of The sober gay Podcast, a show, examined the sobriety in the queer community. In this episode of Queer Money®Dillan joins us to discuss how his life has changed for the better since he became sober, and to tell how much he saved in terms of time and money. He contains in the LGBTQ community, without alcohol without alcohol, and explains what he does as an alternative to drinking and how we have associated alcohol with a glamorous life. Listen to Dillan’s insight into the warning signs of alcohol addiction and learn that his approach becomes sober on your own conditions without Rules.
Topics treated on the sober gay
How Dillan’s life was before he became sober
- Bottle of red wine every evening for 10 years
- Live unrealistic with alcohol as a guide
How much Dillan has saved since he stopped drinking
- $ 6,341 and 1,865 hours
- Tangential costs (i.e. Takeout, Amazon)
How Dillan dealt with bills when he drank
- Had money, but didn’t bother to pay
- Electrical switching off regularly, the car has repeated
Dillan’s insight into alternatives to drink
- Selzer with a shot from Cranberry on the other side
- Redrire Brain (what makes me happy?)
How Dillan thinks about making contacts without drinking
- Easy to get to know new people when you get to know new people
- In the control of feelings, go when you want
How Dillan deals with the pressure to have “a drink”
- Conditioned people to make contacts with alcohol
- To him to educate friends about the situation
The warning signs that inspired Dillan to become sober
- Feelings of guilt every morning
- Black out and awake with strangers
How to help a friend who has to fight alcohol
- Suggest other activities next to drinking
- Rate your own problems, lead with a good example
The myth that alcohol is glamorous
- Conditioned to connect the drinking to the class
- Potential, health, personal life to destroy
Dillan’s top resources to become sober
- Listen to illuminated (especially The naked spirit)))
- Apps for meditation, CBT therapy